Many people have been looking over adult personals online dating profiles and wonder if they may be making the right move when it comes to signing up with such a service. Well, adult dating sites are not like similar sites that are designed to promote relationship connections.With the adult dating sites, people are looking more for adult oriented relationship experiences. While this sounds like a good idea on the surface, some may be seriously concerned about the possibility that such dating is not completely safe.Well, no dating experience can be considered completely safe. That is why it is helpful to follow a few simple tips regarding making sure your experience with adult personals online dating is the most helpful and positive experience.First and foremost, it is of paramount importance that you do not give away any personal information in your profile. Some individuals will slip up and mention their phone number or their last name. Many helpful dating services will pick up on these errors prior to approving a profile and delete or censor the info. However, accidents can happen and you do not want any of your private information making it out to the public domain.Without physical attraction, you are going to have a very tough time attracting the attention of anyone to look in your profile’s direction. That means they need to have an idea of what you look like which creates a problem for those wishing to protect their physical identity.Some people actually avoid showing their face in the picture; many get around this by simple cropping a photo so that the top of their head is not visible. However this may not be such a good idea, as people want to see the face of the actual person behind the profile.Hiding your face shows prospective dates that you either are hideously ugly or you have something to hide. Either way, you will be lucky to get a response.When putting your profile together, even though you are creating a profile for adult personal online dating services, you need to make sure your profile or personal ads are tasteful. Yes, there are some profiles out there that are seriously flawed and adult oriented in their presentation. This is something that you need to avoid since you always want to make a good impression.Vulgar personal profiles have a tendency to attract the wrong kind of person. Is that something that you really want? More than likely it is not, so do not encourage such issues when you are creating your profile.And, of course, a little common sense goes a long way so if you do not feel right about putting something on your profile or responding to a message you received, play it safe. Keep in mind that you are dealing with total strangers. This will ensure your experience with adult personal online dating services remains a forever positive one.
Ad: “Free Website Will Make You a Millionaire”You have always had this dream to have your own business. More importantly, you want a business that gives you autonomy, only requires an hour or so a day, you have the freedom to do as you want, and the time to do it. So you got this email that offers you a free website that will run on autopilot and make you thousands of dollars a day. You have visions of doing web administration as a business that will bring you those riches and fulfill your dream.OK. So there was some exaggeration in that free website statement, in fact, it was all hype. The hook is that word “free”. Yes, they are offering you something for free – a $14.95 domain name and a free website design. What they don’t tell you is that the “upsells” are what get you. This free website is yours for only $37. What part of free didn’t they understand: you cannot charge $37 for something that is free. (There are choice words for someone who makes statements like that, ENTER YOUR WORD HERE _________.)A Domain Name is nothing but a name. A Domain Name does nothing unless it is associated with a website design, or a better way of describing a website design is a container in which the content of your website lives. The free website design is thrown together in minutes by an experienced web developer who already has several hundred templates in his back pocket that require only several minutes of customization to make it unique for your needs.The website design needs to be installed somewhere, either on your own “server” or on a managed host. So, minutes after you signed up, you are hit with the first upsell. First, for the free domain name, you want privacy so that anybody with a browser cannot find out your home address, telephone number, and breed and color of your dog. That privacy will cost you $10 per month.The next upsell is for Domain Hosting. Your website needs a computer connected to the internet on which to run. One option, only for the brave and not-so-bright techies that believe they can do this themselves, is to:
Take an old computer,
Throw a network card in it,
Load it up with every disk drive from every old computer you own,
Download a free image of some flavor of Linux,
Fire up a free Apache web server and
Download a free copy of WordPress.
Connect that puppy to your router,
Get the dedicated IP address assigned to you by your internet carrier, and
BOOM! You have a working website.NOT!!! The reality of this scenario is that you will have a HUGE learning curve to do simple things in LINUX. Every time you install a new software package or change an option, there is a great likelihood that you will spend your weekend either trying to fix what it broke, or reloading LINUX to start from scratch. You should also be prepared to dedicate a great deal of all this spare time you have after quitting your job because this new website will make you rich, learning about system administration tasks such as backup, restore, firewalls, security… You get my drift.WordPress is a very cool web framework that has LOTS of free templates and plug-ins. But WordPress also has a learning curve associated with it. So at this point in your DIY strategy, you are several months into this and still don’t have a working website, still trying to find good content to put on your website, and haven’t made a dime from this thing they call Affiliate Marketing, yep, the thing that was going to make you rich in the first place.Strategy Two: PuntYou now decide to suck it up, and pay the piper for that hosted domain. Well, it is not good enough to pay month to month for this service, because they warn you that the “Search Engines”, around which everything on the internet is driven, do not look kindly on short timers: they want a website that promises to be around for at least the next several years, so the hosted domain marketing team has now sold you at least a two year hosting package, with add-ons that include backup and restore services, additional security, a package to get you free links, a Search Engine Optimization (SEO) package, and free something or other that may as well be a partridge in a pear tree, which is only $1500 to renew after the first year.The guy that charged you $37 for your free website, once you tell him the details of your new hosted domain, three days later is telling you that your website is now ready on your hosted domain using your domain name, “AnotherSucker.com”. When you bring up your website for the first time, there are three articles, or “posts” that look really good. The deeper you dig, you see that you bought a website loaded with posts that start out “Ipson Lorum… “. So where is this content you were promised? Well, that is another $97 for the magic tool that generates this wonderful free content from now into oblivion. Pretty good deal: $97 for the tool that generates free content.So you sign up for the package, but before your mouse pointer trails even disappear from the screen, they are begging you to become a “Gold” Executive Member that gives you BETTER free content for only $495. And all the free content you paid $600 for so far needs to be noticed by the illusive Search Engines so that you get more Traffic, because as we all know, this is a NUMBERS GAME: of the total traffic, 5% will click on an affiliate ad; 2% of those that click on the ad will buy something; your commission on that something they buy is initially 3% of the purchase price, but the more you sell, they increase your commission.Well, how do you get the most traffic? Easy, buy some “backlinks” to other sites (a $15000 value for $297), and create a mailing list from everybody that visits your site so you, too, can become a spammer for the ridiculously low price of $19 per month.So, you do what you are told, sit through EVERY BLASTED HYPE VIDEO they offer as “training”, buy all the recommended packages, and even sign up for the “Platinum” Package for Personal Coaching that will guarantee your success, worth literally millions, but available to you for only $2,995.You now need:
A graphics package to create your own “Viral” banners: $97
A Video Editing system that lets you create your own YouTube videos: $295 for 1 year
A free screen capture program that creates videos in XYZ video format. Of course, nothing on the web except Android phones and several desktops play XYZ video format, so you need a converter for XYZ to FLASH that is only $69. The add-on to make those videos so they can be viewed on an iPad is another $29, a one-time offer.
A mailing list program for $29 per month. Just for signing up, they too offer you another FREE WEBSITE.
A Webinar Recorder that allows you to teach others about your success in the weekly Webinars you conduct. $59 per month.
With all this stuff going on, you need to monitor this environment wherever you are, so you upgrade your smartphone to a 4H-capable phone (oh wait, that’s cows and sheep – I must mean 4G).
a $9.95 smartphone app that checks the status of your websites every 5 minutes, and allows you to automatically delete the 160 comments of spam you get every day on your new WEB EMPIRE.
A Pretty Dismal Picture, Right?So, get out your calculator, and as they do with the annual “Cost of the 12 Days of Christmas” bits aired by the news channels each year, add all this up over a two year period, and create a baseline against which you can compare your actual costs for DOING THIS RIGHT.There are several constants here: you still need a domain name and web hosting solution. You need to establish a NICHE, and PRODUCTS within that niche you are going to promote. You must get a source of content that describes the products you are trying to sell, discussions about the products, articles about how to use the products, feedback on how you can improve the products, and a business infrastructure to support the products and customer service issues.What About, “Web Administration as a Business”?By putting a website online, whether you know it or not, you have become a BUSINESS. You are spending money as expenses to a BUSINESS. Your income is considered BUSINESS INCOME. You may wear many hats, and must make business decisions as a principal, or proprietor of your business. You must keep records. This is a little more than you had planned. Your vision of just being a Web Administrator, that your only job is to perform the daily care and feeding of the technical issues and content has been smashed by all this BUSINESS STUFF.These are the things the GURUS don’t tell you. Whether you have a legitimate product, or establish a website simply to do affiliate marketing or blogging, you need to establish yourself as a business. Simply hanging out a shingle is not enough. You need to protect your business and protect your new income (or account for your losses).
Decide on a company structure: Sole Proprietorship, LLC, Corporation, Partnership
Get a zoning permit and business license in your locality – required for most home-based businesses but blatantly ignored until other issues come up that require that business license.
Get a FEIN – it is like a social security number for a business entity
Get a state tax license and reseller certificate. Yes, Virginia, you are responsible for collecting sales and use taxes for items sold in your state. Some states require sales and use tax no matter where the buyer is located.
If you don’t have an accountant, GET ONE. Discuss your business structure, account structure, tax implications, filing requirements, and ongoing business bookkeeping requirements with a professional. Do this now to avoid last minute fire drills, penalties, and interest for ignoring these requirements or DOING THIS WRONG.
Be sure you are meeting state and federal requirements if you have employees. Paying someone “under the table” can put you, your business, and the employees in jeopardy with state agencies, Federal labor laws, the IRS, and open yourself to liability in civil and/or criminal litigation.
If you do not have an attorney, you may need one for establishing your corporate structure, researching regulatory compliance requirements, drawing up partnership papers, researching patent and copyright issues, etc.
Talk with your insurance advisers on whether business insurance is necessary. Some of the biggest causes of business failure within the first five years of starting a business are legal or criminal action, liability issues, and lawsuits regarding “ERRORS AND OMISSIONS”.
Talk with a BUSINESS CONSULTANT for help in navigating through these issues, and also guidance in creating the necessary BUSINESS DOCUMENTS:
Policy and Procedures Handbook
Corporate Documents: Minutes, Resolutions
Environmental Impact Statements
Business Contacts and Mailing Lists
Advertising and Marketing Plan
Training and Certification
Talk with an IT CONSULTANT to ensure that the IT infrastructure is established, whether simply a PC and a website, the creation of a “Cloud Computing” environment, or building a datacenter.
System Documentation and Runbook
Backup and Recovery Plans
Disaster Recovery infrastructure and plans
System Hardware and Software
Network infrastructure, firewalls, and security
Application Software, installation, configuration, and training
IT infrastructure monitoring and reporting
IT Infrastructure, PC, and Application training
You undoubtedly have used Google Search to find specific information…just type in a word or word phrase you are looking for and Google Search Engine will present pages of related topics and links.Therefore, one of the best ways of doing market research is to check out what the Google AdWords Keyword Tool shows about certain keywords and frequency of searches. The more popular…the more searches… greater the marketplace.It’s common realization that the marketplace for home businesses is booming, especially in our redefining, readjusting economy.So this statistic came as a profound SHOCK. You can check it out for yourself.How many people search the internet by typing the words home business on the average per month? The answer is 2, 240, 000 searches per month…that’s a lot of investigation and/or interest.How many people search the internet by typing the words home business education on the average per month? The answer is approximately 750 searches.In other words, the ratio breaks down that for every 3000 people who are thinking about a home business… there is ONE person who is also thinking about some kind of primary education to explain how a home business works. HELLO! What’s wrong with this SHOCKING picture?Imagine 3000 students in a classroom all eager to build their BIG CHANGE money-making vehicle of some kind…but only ONE person will look at the mechanics. This unbridled methodology is doomed to fail! How many ways can you make a wheel?No curriculum can exist that way through some kind of automatic osmosis. No one can expect a graduate’s mastery or performance from a primary level student. No new “dreamy-eyed” person coming into a home business without proper foundational comprehension and skills will function like a self-branded, social media expert. After a short time..when hype fizzles..only frustration and failure remain as sad ashes from broken dreams.Now it is also a fact that the most common home business is based on network marketing for many reasons. At least 95% of home business owners are network marketers. It is estimated about 15 – 20% of successful networkers come from previous small business backgrounds and have well-honed business skill. (This leaves about 80% of home-based networkers with limited skills but they are expected to function with the necessary skills of communicating, marketing, sales, motivation and more. This topic will be covered more in the next blog.)The main point is that HOME BUSINESS EDUCATION MUST PRECEDE HOME BUSINESS…in the same way that an engineering course must precede building a bridge. The main answer here is that a PRIMARY EDUCATION PROGRAM must be presented about how this Network Marketing Home Business works. It must be based on a common basic understanding that is easily shared even with non-business people.
Here are examples of primary instruction:* Begin with basic vocabulary, concepts, strategies, comparison, self- evaluation and summary* Provide a simple training component easily shared with a growing team to explain the duplication principles of this business model. This is mandatory to explain the main concepts related to leverage. Example: Slide presentation: Network Marketing in the Modern Information Age with a Simple 1 – 2 – 3 Marketing Plan.* Ensure that the divergent but necessary elements for networking success are amalgamated into ONE simple journal, including self-concept development, to save months of research and avoid mistakes: Example: E-Book: 105 Tips How to Plug into our Information Economy through Network Marketing* Connect to a simple online marketing system to expand contacts beyond warm market, uses auto responders loaded with sales messages for automatic follow-up, as well as provide ongoing communication trainingv
* Provide time flexibility to fit into variable time schedules… not based on conferences schedules. Example:This ABC Primer can be easily accomplished in under 30 minutes with the Mini-Program for Maxi-Profits. NOTE: A picture is worth a thousand words…visual learning is critical to see complex meanings.* Has to be low-cost for the average networker to afford: online system, leads, training and support so everyone can get into positive cash flow* Eliminate the biggest roadblocks to success which are excuses, “I don’t have any money, I’m too busy, I can’t, I won’t.” A life framed with excuses is a wasted future. Again simplify answers with slides and notes found in the Mini-Program for Maxi-Profits.BOTTOM LINE: Minimal cost, minimal time, maximum basics, maximum duplication ..the real creation of a true self-franchised individualHOME BUSINESS EDUCATION becomes an integral part of the Home Business Viral Marketing FormulaProfits = Leveraged Message + Democratic Plan x Duplication* Leveraged Message is complete and consistent
* Democratic Plan is kept simple
* Duplication is knowledgeable, exciting without excusesProfits become part of your life story and legacy.As always, comments, questions and opinions are always appreciated. Another excellent source of primary education is Home Business 101 (3 videos..introduction, comparison and mindset ) and Home Business 102 (4 videos on Goal Setting)Annemarie